Most people learn consent as “no means no” and “yes means yes.” Some even assume that being in a long-term relationship automatically grants continuous access to a partner’s body—not true! Whether you’ve been married for 40 years, dating for two, or navigating your first adult partnership, enthusiastic consent is essential at every stage.
Couples who ask each other for enthusiastic consent “seek excitement to participate in sexual activities—not just the absence of a ‘no,’” says De-Andrea Blaylock-Solar, LCSW, CST, sexuality and relationship therapist. This energetic exchange can transform your relationship in many ways, strengthening communication, building anticipation, and making intimacy feel more connected and mutually desired.
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