The Question: “Dear AskFemme, She (my partner) thinks watching porn is cheating. I disagree. What should I do? – Kevin, 38
The Answer: Dear Kevin, This one is really tough. I’ll say it right off the bat, I think you’re right, and she’s wrong. Of course, the more politically correct answer is that everyone is entitled to their boundaries and entitled to decide what cheating means to them. But I think that telling a partner not to watch porn, and trying to cut that out of their life, can actually be a really good way to help them actually cheat, in real life, with flesh and blood sex with another human.
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