How Reading, Movies, and Cooking Bring Me Joy

What brings me the most joy in life is reading, watching movies, and cooking. Reading has been a part of me since I was seven, despite my initial struggle with dyslexia. Though I hated it at first, discovering my first book was a turning point, and I’ve never looked back. Now, I immerse myself in all types of fiction, from physical books to Chinese translations, each opening a new world of wonder. Movie nights are a cherished family tradition. Every Friday, we gather to watch a film—a practice I now uphold, ensuring it remains a way for us to bond and create lasting memories. Cooking, though a late hobby, brings immense satisfaction. Inspired by my family’s love for Korean food and the costs of dining out, I taught myself to make dishes like tteokbokki and dumplings. It’s not perfect, but it’s always made with love. Letting go of a friendship was one of the hardest things I’ve had to do, but it taught me an important lesson: people come and go, and that’s okay. For years, I clung tightly to a friendship that, in hindsight, was toxic. I constantly blamed myself, thinking I was the problem, but over time, I realized how one-sided it was. I poured so much effort into maintaining the bond—doing everything without expecting anything in return—only to see it crack further. Letting go felt like breaking free from invisible shackles. Though I didn’t end the friendship myself, its conclusion brought an unexpected sense of peace and clarity. It took over three years for me to see that it wasn’t truly a friendship. This experience helped me understand my worth and recognize that healthy relationships require mutual respect and effort.

Iman Sofia, Ampang

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Everyone carries a story within them, a unique narrative shaped by their experiences and life choices. Often, the most unexpected people possess the most extraordinary tales. These stories have the power to inspire, to challenge perspectives, and to connect us more deeply to the human experience. So, recommend us that person. We are keen to share their stories with open hearts and inspire others too at the same time. 

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